Dealing with stubborn kids

Many parents complain nowadays that their child is getting stubborn and annoying. The reason behind this is not complex. 

Lets discus that why our kids behave awkward in certain situation nd we label that behaviour as stubbornness?

To answer this question we have some more questions to ask ourselves

1- Is your child stubborn or are you?

2- Is your child born stubborn?

3- Have you never showed stubborn behaviour in front of kids?

Stubbornness is not associated with jenes.Rather it is the product of parenting. From where the child has aquired this behaviour? Definitely the child is like a blank slate  when born. He/She records eveeything he observes in his surrounding. So answer of all above question is simply "NO" 

I always say that child never learn just by listening your directions but he learns from what you do as parent because you as parent are a role model for  your child, perhaps his 1st role model.

So whenever your child is behaving stubborn , do analyze your behaviour once to check where is the problem.

Parenting goals

 Parenting is not an easy job. Its a ful time.job where you are engaged with the child 24/7. Here are some parenting goals which may help you in raising healthy individuals. 

• Create a respectful relation with your child.

• Give them compulsory  quality time till the age of 7.

• Talk to them as individual not as child

•  Enact infront of them how to express their basic emotions like happines, fear,anger, etc

• Somtimes give them freedom to choose in shopping. This will develop sense of financial management in them from very early age

• Convince them  logically and dont impose your decisions on them

• If you feel their logic is valid then do admit their logic and surrender from that of yours.

Following all the above mentioned tips you can give a healthy individual to this society and this will be your contribution in society building.